After Visiting Friends

“Family? Secrets? Sometimes I think they are one and the same.” So writes Michael Hainey in this unforgettable story of a son’s search to discover the truth about his father’s death, when Hainey was just a boy of six. A universal story of love and loss and the resilience of family in the face of hardship, After Visiting Friends is an unforgettable memoir of a son who went searching for his father, and in the journey discovers new love and admiration for his mother.

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Praise

 

“A fascinating, honest, and deeply touching story about a father and son, the price of family secrets, and the redemptive power of truth.”

Chicago Tribune


“Searing and unforgettable. Simply put, this is memoir writing at its best.”

San Francisco Chronicle


“A powerfully affecting memoir.”

The Oprah Magazine

 

“Parts of this story stayed with me forever. I finished it in tears.”

— Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love


“I inhaled this story. Everything you want and need in a book.”

— Gabrielle Hamilton, author of Blood, Bones & Butter


“Michael Hainey is a great writer. After Visiting Friends is not only gripping and powerful, but it is impeccably written.”

— David Sheff, author of Beautiful Boy

 

Hear Michael speak with NPR’s “Morning Edition” about the book

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